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Welcoming the New Year! January 4, 2010

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Good bye to 2009 and Welcome to 2010

We sure said Good Bye to 2009 with a fanfare!  A Blue Moon Lunar Eclipse on the last day of the year!  Energetically, an event of great significance.  A blue moon only happens once every two and a half years. It was a very auspicious time to release all that no longer serves us and initiating the manifestation of all that we desire.  I received emails right and left, and of course I forwarded many of them, with formulas to engage all the auspicious energies to strengthen our intentions.  I welcomed the New Year with meditations and ceremonies connecting with Source – the All, in company of my beloved husband.  I can say with certainty that this was my best New Year’s celebration ever!  I am excited about the New Year especially after we received such support from Our Creator in order to strengthen all our energetic manifestations.  Our connection to Our Creator at this time is of utmost importance.  As we recognize Our Creator, the Source of All within us, we too can recognize that, because we are ONE with Source, we can achieve anything we desire.

As we enter this new year of possibilities, let us not get stuck on the “how”.  During my studies of the Law of Attraction I learned that the “how” is none of our business, instead, let us focus on the feelings we experience as we see ourselves achieving that which we desire.  Since the energy from our heart is thousands of times greater that the power of our minds, our feelings override anything our mind or mental blocks may be telling us.  We attract what we focus on, therefore, focusing on the outcome of our desires will bring them into manifestation!

Happy New Year!

Alex Ruiz-Vasquez

Transformational Life Coach, Animal Communicator, Toe/Soul Reader,
EMF Balancing Technique Practitioner/Supervisory Teacher,
Certified Feng Shui Practitioner, Energy Worker

alex.ruizvasquez@gmail.com

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Is there such a thing as Right vs Wrong? December 16, 2009

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Is there really a right and wrong way of doing something or thinking about something?  In Spanish there is a saying that says “Cada cabeza es un mundo”.  Roughly translated it means – Each head is a different world.  The idea is that since we all have had different experiences in our lives and our experiences determine our perspective, each one of us will see the same thing with in a different way.  I read once that there are 360 different ways to look at a sculpture based on where we stand in relationship to it.  Since there are 360 degrees in a circle, every time we stand at a different degree in that circle, what we see will be slightly different from the previous position.  Based on this concept then, if there are billions of humans in the planet, and we each have experienced life in a different way, even in the same family, then there are billions of different perspectives.  This would mean, then, that there are no rights or wrongs, just different ways of doing things based on our own life screens which are influenced by our own individual experiences.

What if we go even deeper than that?  I was listening to a teleclass where the speaker instructed that we all come with a goal to this planet of what we are to learn in this particular life.  He then said that we begin to make the “wrong” decisions based on our early learning and that takes us away from completing our goal.  Based on this perspective, we sometimes meet the goal and sometimes we don’t. Without saying that this viewpoint is “wrong” I would like to introduce a different point of view.

What if all of it is all part of the “lesson”?  I am now 55 and I believe that I have finally put the last piece of the puzzle of my life together.  It was just a few months ago that I finally realized how everything fits so beautifully together.  When I was 20 I made a decision that I regretted most of my life.  I would tell myself that, if I had made a different decision I would have had a “normal” life, which translated means, it would have been a safe, comfortable life.  Instead I went through this roller coaster of a life.  I must say, I had great fun but, I often wondered, why would Our Heavenly Father/Mother abandon me at that time and did not help me to make the “right” decision?  I prayed and prayed at that time for guidance, why wasn’t I put in the “right” path? Why did I have to go through all that I went through?  Why didn’t the people involved help me make the “right” decision? Granted, I learned a lot and had lots and lots of fun, but, why couldn’t my life had been easier and simpler?  During different stages in my life I would get a message that would reassure me that what I had just experienced had prepared me for what came next.  And you know, it made perfect sense at the time.  It all seemed to make sense except for that particular decision I made at 20.  Then, finally the answer came to me a few months ago.  You see, at that time, after I realized I had made what I thought was the “wrong” decision I decided I would never, ever again leave things at a chance.  Before then, I was a very prudent, sensible, “wise” decision maker.   I was always afraid of making mistakes or of doing the “wrong” or socially inappropriate thing.  Then, this happened and I decided that, from then on, if I wanted to do something I would do it.  That if I wanted to go out with someone I would ask them out even if at the time it was still not appropriate for women to ask men out for a date.  I decided that nothing would stop me from doing whatever it was that I wanted to do.  I did not see problems or obstacles only marvelous possibilities! I can see now that had I not made this “wrong” decision, I would definitely had continued living my life in fear – fear of not being liked, fear of not fitting in, of making mistakes, etc…Instead I lived in a world of “cans” not “cannot’s”.  What a blessing!

What I learned through the years was that every experience I had had helped me to learn to be empathetic towards others, helped me to understand where they came from without judgment, helped them to feel more comfortable with me because they knew I had also been there done that.  In other words, I came to teach from experience.  Yes, my studies have helped me to better understand the healing process, but my experiences have helped me to serve others from a place of Love.  I can help others from the heart, not the head…How can I teach others to love themselves if I did not have to learn the same thing for myself?  How can I teach others not to judge themselves if I have not learned that from my experiences? How can I teach others to deal with the pain that comes from some of our experiences if I have never had to work with my own pain?  How can I give others hope that indeed there is a light at the end of the tunnel if I had not seen my own light?

Believe me, when I made this realization my heart was full with love and gratitude and humility.  Love and gratitude for the Universe, love and gratitude for those people in my life that did what they did to help me live my life exactly as I was meant to live it in order to give myself permission to live without fear.  What a ride!!!!  And humility in the realization that those people who helped me – even when at the time I did not think they were helping me – were willing to accept my resentment towards them all these years…all out of Universal love.  Even if they did not consciously know that is what they were doing.  Asking for forgiveness was definitely in order!

So, I propose that, instead of looking at our decisions as wrong or right, or looking at them as taking us away from what we came to learn, they are actually exactly what they need to be and they are another link, another step that will take us exactly where we are going.  If we did not have to have that experience to learn something, we would not make that decision in the first place.  Every single decision we make is based on what we need to learn at the time to take us to our ultimate goal.  Every experience we have takes us closer and closer to our Spiritual Evolution, to achieving that goal that we set for ourselves before we came to this planet so we can better serve humanity.

Can you see your Glory?  Can you see how everything fits in your life?  Let me know.

Alex Ruiz-Vasquez

Alex is also an Animal Communicator, Toe/Soul Reader,
EMF Balancing Technique Practitioner/Supervisory Teacher,
Certified Feng Shui Practitioner, Energy Worker

alex.ruizvasquez@gmail.com

THE BEGINNING October 15, 2009

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Publishing my blog has been more than an adventure.  I was very nervous and was guided to do a lot of energetic releasing of old blocks and belief patterns.  Why would finally publishing my blog be such a great deal?  Why would it create such anxiety?  Such fear?  It has taken me months to finally get here.  I first thought – I do not know how to do it…I will have to take a class. I asked the Universe, by using the Law of Attraction, for reasonably priced classes to create a blog and a website.  I specified that I did not want to take a class at the Jr. College level.  Well, one day as I looked at several magazines gifted to me, I saw one in particular.  I was not sure what it was but I opened it.  As I scanned the page I noticed that it was a Parks and Recreations catalogue with their class schedule.  And then…I saw this particular class that “someone” had circled – “How to create your own blog”. Across from it there was another class – “How to create your own website”!  Needless to say, I was speechless, in awe…Do you get my point?  I could not believe it!  Right there was exactly what I had requested.  Well, there were not enough people that registered to learn to create the blog but my DH and I were able to take the basic and advanced website class.  How fun!

Well, you would think that after this adventure I would be ready to create my blog.  Well, not.  It did not occur yet.  For some reason I would not even open the resources I was given in order to figure out how to do it.  It appeared I was petrified!  During my Life Coaching class I talked about my ordeal.  I was challenged to create a blog in the school’s community site.  I did.  It was fun, but, I still could not do it at large.  Finally a friend was kind enough to walk me through the process.  I still did not follow through for a couple of weeks, yet.  What in the world was keeping me from this process?  What is the FEAR?

Aha, fear of the unknown! Looking back, this has been a recurring opportunity for exploration throughout my life.  I notice this opportunity primarily while driving.  I remember once driving at night with a friend.  We were driving out in the middle of nowhere.  There were no lights.  It was pitch dark.  Once in awhile oncoming traffic would pass by.  But only once in awhile.  I was driving about 15 miles/hr or less.  Finally my friend got very impatient and complained that I was driving too slowly and at this rate we would never get to our destination.  I sheepishly explained that I could not drive faster because I did not know what was ahead of us.  Would there be a road?  Would it continue straight or would it turn?  What if I did not notice the turn?  My exasperated friend replied that if there were cars coming this way that meant that there was a road ahead.  They had to come from somewhere.  The road goes somewhere…etc.  I started driving a little faster but, believe me, not much.  For years I had that fear and I continued to reassure myself by repeating my frustrated friend’s statements.  “The cars have to come from somewhere, they have to come from somewhere!”  I do not remember when that fear finally stopped but, fortunately for me and those driving with me, I do not have that fear any more.  I also used to have that fear while driving up a hill.  What is on the other side?  I would wonder.  What if the oncoming traffic does not stay on its lane?  Oh, my, oh, my.  Believe me, this is no fun!

I am so fortunate that I have learned a variety of techniques to assist me to discover my emotional blocks and then to release them!  Some of them are very, very ingrained and have taken a lot of persistence.  Some of these fears are generational, so they may take even longer to clear.  What I remind myself is what I usually remind my clients about…what we are doing when we are clearing an emotional and cellular block is re-patterning our neurological connections, our cellular and DNA memories.  It takes persistence, trust and a willingness to go through this process.  Sometimes the process is longer because many times there are several layers to each issue.  We may be re-patterning one issue and another one shows up, then another one, and another one, until finally it seems to end.  After awhile, though, another related issue may show up and have to again start the process or, if we are lucky, we may really be finished with that one and move on to another one.

The marvelous thing about it all is that we live in marvelous times when we are going through energetic changes.  Now, instead of years to clear an issue up, it may take weeks, days, sometimes hours, and even sometimes minutes or…instantaneously.  What a blessing!   In my late 20’s and most of my 30’s I went for counseling.  It took me years to finally clear a lot of my issues.  What a difference!  Having been there, done that, I know that now it really does not take that much work.  The veil is thinner now.  With the help of Source, Our Heavenly Father/Mother and all the Universal Beings that are ready to help us with our asking, we can make these shifts easier than before.

With a very grateful heart I thank The Universe for the blessing of being alive at this time and for having given me the opportunity to learn what I have learned not only for myself, but also to inspire and support others who are also ready for the SHIFT!  For their spiritual evolution!

May you continue to enjoy your blessings and your opportunities for your spiritual evolution!

Until next time!

Alex Ruiz-Vasquez

Transformational Life Coach, Animal Communicator, Toe/Soul Reader,
EMF Balancing Technique Practitioner/Supervisory Teacher,
Certified Feng Shui Practitioner, Energy Worker

alex.ruizvasquez@gmail.com